Holidays are hard as it is.  So my question is if after being divorced who do you spend the holidays with?  We know family is given but once you are alone and possibly don't have your kids that year... what do you do?  If you are dating someone with kids do you co-mingle?  Or keep separate?  If you are dating someone with no kids do you have to go to their parents??  Ugh!!  We thought we escaped that!:)  Either way all I am saying is life is thrown at us and we have to react to what we receive.  Yeah right .... we always overreact.